The Pocket Coach is coming to your phone.
Some conversations are hard before they start: the reply I keep drafting, the talk at work I keep putting off. The Pocket Coach is being built as an app for iPhone and Android, to practice what to say before a hard conversation. It is software, not a person and not a therapist. It is not out yet, and there is nothing to install today.
It is for practice, not for a crisis. In the US, call or text 988, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, any time. If someone is hurting or threatening you, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. If you are in danger right now, call 911.
- iOS
- Android
- Coming soon

Members hear first
Everyone who buys The Rel8r Bundle is a member. When the app opens, members hear first, at the email address they bought with.
The bundle is how the app gets built and kept running, so every member brings it closer.
What you can have today
Start free with the Attachment Compass on rel8r.me: 36 statements and your two attachment dials. A self-reflection snapshot, not a diagnosis.
The Rel8r Bundle is ready now: $39 once, no subscription.
- The Pocket Guide: the firebreaks, each with what might be going on, what I could say, and what I can tell myself. Works offline.
- Why Do They Go Quiet?, in both editions.
- An offline copy of the Attachment Compass.
Or The Rel8r Pocket Guide: the offline Pocket Guide alone, $19 once.
